The Look of Love. Norwegian men are shy, so the closest they often come to seduction is staring at women across a crowded bar. "Have a good and intense eye contact," says Espen Korsvik, Norway's top dating instructor, who demonstrates the required gaze above. "Eye contact is very attractive when you are holding it, and don't flinch.” Some foreign women may feel surrounded by creepy stalkers. But in Norway, this is Romance. So smile back.